Hey guys,

So I (M30) been dating this girl (F24) that I’m into and things might be moving to the next level soon and I’m a little nervous about it for various reasons

1. I haven’t had sex in years and I wanna perform good and satisfy her.

2. Earlier this year. I was presented with sex with this other girl I was dating and I wasn’t able to get it up. It was pretty embarrassing given that we had fooled around before and I was able to get an erection with no issue. We broke things off after that and it kinda destroyed my confidence.

3. Overall nervousness

Ive been able to get semi hard whenever we make out and I always have precum happen so arousal is there. When im alone, im able to maintain an erection and even bought a sex toy to avoid the death grip syndrome. I guess maybe the nerves get in the way? I bought viagra to help with the anxiety but I’m curious if anyone has any other advice for me?

I really like this girl and want our first time to be something special but I’m worried I’ll ruin it like before.

Any advice is helpful!