My wife and I have had a very exciting sex life for 25 years. Over time we enjoyed public exhibitionism, having a lot of naughty photo/video shoots, posting the pictures and videos online, swinging through websites and at swing clubs, and having an open relationship.

Many years ago my wife stopped doing any of it. I accepted it and neither one of us have done anything like we used to do since. I miss the super hot sexual dynamo she was, and our sexual satsfaction with each other has suffered because of it.

I've been to typical therapists for these issues, but they aren't equiped for what our history brings. Most therapists gloss completely over sexual issues, which sucks, because that's why I'm seeing them in the first place. I've mentioned getting with a sex therapist as a couple to my wife and she's ok with it, but neither one of us have had much luck with therapy of any sort, so we both think it might be a waste of time and money.

I'll gladly do it if it will help, and money is no object if we can repair the issues, but it seems expensive and insurance doesn't pay. I'd hate to invest in it and it big a big bowl of nothing.

Are sexual therapists any good? Would they help us??