I’m a more masculine woman and I have a stomach. Not in the conventionally attractive way, I have hourglass syndrome and maybe cushings? My stomach is bigger/wider than my hips and legs and I look disproportionate and gross. I hate how I look.

My girlfriend has not seen my stomach and it makes me violently ill when she accidentally touches me there. She says she likes bigger women but my body is so oddly shaped and I just don’t actually believe she’ll still be attracted to me. This doesn’t make sense because if she looked like me, I’d love her body. I love body dysmorphia and ED’s!!!!!!

Anyway, I want her to be able to touch my chest without my stomach being out. Most of the solutions involve tube tops or some sort of lingerie but I won’t look good in that and I can’t wear it anyway due to sensory issues.

How do I keep my chest exposed without my stomach out? Blankets get in the way but is that the only solution?