My Partner, F, 37, has been struggling to reach orgasm lately, it builds and builds and right at the last moment she loses it, and it's gone for that session / night / day. She recently went on an SSRI, also is diagnosed ADHD. She recently said she thought she was going to have a huge orgasmic explosion and then poof gone right in the last moments. When I aske her what she needs are wants she usually just says its ok.

Has anyone else experienced this and found a way to overcome it. We are not super adventurous, so I kind of wounder if there is a better way to engage her mind and body since were fairly routine.

I guess we should work on our lack of communication on sex, but don't even know where to start with that. There is a lack of information so to speak from her, was socked recently to find out she didn't know about the G spot... which is where I was "working" when she was building that explosive feeling build up. I don't know what other areas she's missing information on, and she seems to mostly just listen when I try to talk sex with her.