28 m here. In a way I sort of feel confused about my sexuality if I am honest. I'm in my late 20s and my same sex sexual encounters and experimenting starting happening in my early 20s. But like usually when I'm really high off substances or drunk. Throughout most my life I never felt gross or turned off by the idea to fool around with another guy but I never felt strongly about it either. My first time messing around I was sober for it. I was curious to see if it was really fast and easy to hookup with another guy. That and I was in a dry spell u could say and I felt a strong urge to have sex. To my surprise it was really fast and easy and I met up with a guy that I was talking to for a good week in my area. We pretty much did everything. Made out for a bit, trade oral, and then took turns top and bottom

I felt really confused afterwards. I remember the rest of the day still having their taste in mind. It was like .y body felt relieved but I just felt conflicted. Over time I got over it. When it came to having hookups with other guys while high I didn't really feel that confusion feeling anymore. I just enjoyed the moment and the sensation during afterwards. Even shared some good conversations a few times afterwards. Im curious if other guys have had a similar thoughts and experiences? I'm unsure if I could ever romantically be involved with another guy. But I sat that because my interactions with guys i am hooking up with are similar to any regular casual interaction most of us would have. Like joking around, having a drink, getting high and general conversation getting to know each other better. I can't imagine another dude telling me lovey dovey words or wanting something more deep and intimate. I'm not opposed to it though. I'd give it a try if the opportunity rolls around. What do u all think? Guy or girl I appreciate any perspectives.