Slept with a guy I was hanging out with and talking to for a few months. He wasn’t drinking but stayed at his as usual after a night out and he initiated. Spent a while on foreplay on me then put on a condom and I touched him and guided him in and he lost it. He gets around a bit and uses them so I’m not sure. But took him barely any time to get it back when I told him to lay back and then when I was starting up after a few minutes told me he was going to finish so just kept going and he did. The next time had no issues but he didn’t finish because of alcohol but was grinding on me the next morning (initiating?).

What was the issue, normally if guys lose it they don’t get it back so quickly and get into their head or take a while and then don’t finish. What happened with him?