Hello, I'm just looking for some advice. I (25F) have been dating someone (26M) I met on Hinge. For reasons I won't get into, I'm very sexually inexperienced, while he's the complete opposite. First date was lovely. Second date was also lovely, and we kissed. We had our third date on Saturday night. We went back to his place afterwards and kissed on his bed. He started undressing me and told me he wanted to have sex with me. I told him I wasn't ready, which seemed to frustrate him. He told me that I'd made him hard, and that it's unhealthy for a guy to get hard without cumming (I don't know if that's true or not). He convinced me to go down on him. It was OK at first, but then he started telling me to take it deeper, which I couldn't do. He got frustrated again, telling me he wouldn't be able to cum if I didn't take it deeper. He held my head still and started moving his dick in and out of my mouth, going so deep that it touched my throat. This was uncomfortable for me, but I let him continue. He eventually came in my mouth. He told me to swallow his cum. I didn't really want to, but I felt like I had to, so I did. I'd rather not do it again though. Do guys expect you to swallow their cum after going down on them? Do they get offended if you don't? Is there something I could offer as an alternative? Please help me out ❤