I (21M) have had a specific fetish of seeing girls pee/wet themselves/ be desperate, etc. for years now. When I met my (21F) gf and we started dating, I eventually revealed this to her and she was very receptive.

However, since then, I have become increasingly more obsessed with her peeing, to the point where any time we are together, there is a thought in the back of my mind as to when she’ll have to pee next. If she pees and im not there to see it/be involved in some way i get frustrated, and end up being short with her (which tears me up inside because she is fucking perfect). Even the simple act of her telling me she has to pee just immediately triggers something in my brain and I get extremely stressed and obsessive.

I honestly don’t know what to do at this point. I am terrified of ruining the great relationship I have with this woman and I am not going to fuck it up because of this. It’s something I’ve tried to shake several times and every time it comes back it’s even stronger.

If anyone else has been through something similar/can offer advice or any help at all that would be great. Thank you