My partner and I have used a bullet vibrator during sex and she likes it ok but we were going to try to use a hitachi mini wand instead and I just wanted some advice on how to use it with her. I read how to use it in certain positions but I mostly mean advice so that she doesn’t get too overly sensitive too quickly?

Because I’ve heard you can go from zero to orgasm in like 2 minutes lol but I didn’t know if she should start with it on her pelvic area and then move down closer to the rest whenever she feels like it? Also unless she just wants to should we not start using it until I’ve penetrated her? Or maybe start with the bullet vibrator until I’m inside her and then move to the mini wand? That type of thing is what I’m wondering.

Thanks for any info and looking forward to trying it all!