I have a girlfriend who loves to have sex with me and says I make her feel good but she struggles to come unless we combine myself with the rose. However I’ve never had problems in the past as women have told me they love how I make them feel and have made women come during sex and during head, but for some reason I can’t solely get my woman there. Whenever I ask her what she wants or needs to get there and do it it seems she gets overstimulated and asks me to stop without the orgasm happening. Her body tenses up and shakes and she enjoys the feeling but says she isn’t cumming. As a pleaser I want to make sure I’m doing my job, any advice ?