I(F20) am supposed to be seeing a guy(M20) that goes to college with me. Do I tell him in the moment “curl your fingers up” or do I just wait until he’s done to bring it up? Also how do you teach a guy how to rub your clit and give you an orgasm? With my ex he never learned and I’ve never had a guy give me an orgasm from rubbing my clit. My ex would make me squ*** everytime though so it’s not like he didn’t care about my pleasure or anything like that. It’s more of if guide his hand to my clit and it’d probably move a bit and end up on the wrong spot. Plus I don’t want to make that kind of mess with this new guy because we barely know each other. Before I got comfortable with my ex, I would always stop him before I could squ*** because I was embarrassed and didn’t want to make a mess and that was also my first time finding out I could even squirt. Should I do this with the new guy too? When I’m close do I just say “ok you can stop what you’re doing I’m about to squ***.” What can I do?

Suggest anything but letting him watch me masturbate, I’m not doing that😭 also, if you have ideas on things to say as dirty talk to a guy please tell me. Things like “Your cock is so big” sounds so cringe to me plus should I still tell him it’s big even if it isn’t big or would that make things awkward?😭 also I’m not very sexually experienced, he’s the one that’s more experienced. Can you also give me ideas on things to do outside of penetrative sex? He asked me what I like and the only thing I know I like is being fingered and having my nipples sucked. I haven’t done much outside of that so I kind of need new ideas too that aren’t penetrative sex💀