I'm seeking advice. I love my wife and have been married for about 45 years. Due to medical issues, she no longer has a desire for sex, zero. Her cancer was beat, but all sex organs were removed, and hrt not an option due to the type of cancer she had. She's been healthy for many years now, but sex is off the table. That lead to a discussion where I said I would not ask for any sex ever again. Now, what do I do. I need to be needed, wanted, held,, desired, touched, played with, etc. Is there another subreddit that might address my problem better than this one? I'm 72 and still desire intimacy that I can't get from my wife. Any suggestions? ENM? Car play hookups? Or where can I go to find a female friend that could be a fwb? Help...