My (20F) gf (22F) and I have been together for 6 months and since we are the first time for each we decided to take it slow. She just started to connect with her sexuality and I think that plays an important role on what i’m about to talk about. For context she never gave herself pleasure or anything related to sex.

We’ve been talking about how it feels for each of us and although I enjoy it pretty much the whole thing she says she doesn’t feel anything (“is indifferent” to her) until she is close to the done deal. We tried different approaches on both of us and she says she feels more when teasing than the matter itself.

We thought of the possibility of asexual. But she didn’t think so since she wants to have sex (although her sex drive is low) but most of the times focused on the other person.

She is worried this is not normal and idk what to tell her.

We will take advice, ideas, whatever to assess the situation and help her enjoy more her sexuality.

———- TLDR: gf feels indiferente while having sex until she is close to coming. How can we approach this so she can enjoy more and not only at the end?