My ex gf (f49) and I, have had a long distance friendship with me (m69) since 2004. She now has a fwb (M34). I recently told her about my hotwife kink and I have asked to share her recent hookups with her fwb while we have phone sex. It has been great!

I have asked her if I could watch or listen discreetly next time she meets with him but she is uncomfortable doing so.

I will be visiting her city in a few week for business and she is meeting me a few evenings at my hotel for a ‘reunion’. One evening, she is planning to meet her fwb at the same hotel that I am staying and then I will be coming to her room right after he leaves to get ‘reacquainted’. It has been 3 years since I saw her.

Has anyone done anything similar to this before and is so, how did it turn out?

Also when I do see her after her fwb leaves, what suggestions do you have for me to get reacquainted with her and that I don’t get too excited and climax too fast from the excitement and anticipation?

Any advise or blind spots would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.