Wife has always said she has no sexual fantasies. She said she only thinks about the sensation when masturbating - no thoughts, no fantasies, no bucket list. There’s always been a disconnect between her mind and her body. She did suffer significant sexual trauma, when she was young. She recently has been on a bit of a healing journey. The other day, she was so excited “I was thinking of giving you a blow job and got wet!” She said she hasn’t had a thought lead to physical response, since the trauma. This is huge! She’s always been hesitant to discuss. I’ve always been super vigilant around what she seems to like and that’s led to some exhibitionism and sensation play. But now, I think my role is shifting to help her be comfortable in helping her explore her thoughts. Phew! Her newfound willingness to communicate removes a ton of pressure from me and my risky, assumptive guess work. I welcome any suggestions as to how I might be a better partner in gently helping her strengthen this re-born connection between her brain and her body. How can I best help her? Can anyone relate? Any ideas/best practices/pitfalls to avoid?