Curious what others thoughts are on this. My(35f) bf(36m) and I had an almost/sort of threesome, where the girl watched us, and her and I made out and played a bit, touched us, etc. After it felt like it brought us incredibly closer. Group sex is of extreme interest to me.

We plan to have sex with this girl and her husband next time we meet up. My partner and I have talked a lot and he affirms to me this is a “deep shared experience” between us as a couple that is meant to “deepen our connection.” I should add this has all been my desire that I brought up. It’s something we both are exploring together.

It’s weird though because he doesn’t seem to want to admit he is excited for sex with someone else. Part of me is programmed to think it’s his nature to desire others, and he must be excited about it and afraid to tell me. He’s had other women and threesomes before. Part of me wonders if he’s honest about his intentions. Is it possible he does truly see this as a shared experience he wants to give me (my fantasy and bucket list item haha), and doesn’t desire to be with other women? I just want him to be truthful about his intentions and find it hard to believe a man wouldn’t desire others.