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So I’ve been with my husband for a little over 5 years. When we have sex, he’s a wonderfully attentive lover & we both really enjoy it. But he almost never initiates and sometimes it gets to me; I don’t feel as attractive when I have to initiate. I’ve tried to talk about it with him & he’ll be proactive for a couple weeks & then back to…not.
He’s fine with me using my hand but not the dildo. I rarely masturbate unless he or I are on a trip apart from each other (which happens 1-3 times/year)
Should I just let it be since the actual sex is really good? Ideas? Suggestions?
PS: “men have it bad too” isn’t advice guys 😂
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