This is pretty straight forward but curious what women's thoughts are in America on this. I've told women during a hookup but before the clothes all came off and have also not mentioned anything. A few have liked knowing in advance, others have found it a little too much but also there have definitely been a few women who straight up told me they weren't sure what to do with it and wish they had known. And of course somehow a few didn't even realize until after multiple hookups.

I know there isn't any one answer here but would you rather have someone tell you beforehand or find out on your own, especially if it was something new to you.