Bf and I have been entertaining the idea of a threesome for awhile now. To be clear, it’s my idea. He’s had a couple ffm and a mfm before and I have never had one. It’s always been a fantasy of mine, though I am nervous about what feelings might come up.

Initially he was in the “if you want to I will, I’m fine either way” camp, but today he brought it up and I asked if it’s something HE wants. He said “I’ve been entertaining the idea” I asked him what he liked the most about threesomes and all he could say is that they are “exciting”. He couldn’t really elaborate. I’m super curious to understand from a male perspective the excitement behind it? Is it the ability to have another female? Or the shared group experience? Or the experience shared with your partner? What’s the best part?

Also, I asked him if he thinks he would develop feelings to which he said yes, that he would care about them after being intimate but that I would have to remember he loves me and is with me. I appreciate his honesty.

Just wondering if anyone else can elaborate on where he’s coming from and what these feelings might look like. Thanks.