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How do you contextualise and empathise with your kinks, and the shame they can cause sometimes?
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I'm 21f, and struggle with it. Dodgy childhood, tricky life, different brain makeup, etc. I guess superficial judgements and armchair psychoanalysis aside, that was a recipe for a very, very kinky person? Lol.

I have some taboo kinks, a high drive, love fantasising and sex even when explored just as my special interest, I collect sex toys, I review them too, I write smut, I sext online, I've been pretty curious about it since forever. I'm naturally that way I guess. I just, often feel a low thrum of shame about it though, in spite of being so into it. Like I'm dirty, or gross, or something's wrong with me.

I know this isn't a really complex, unsolvable thing - probably pretty common. But how do you reconcile these feelings with yourself? I have no real life outlet to hear kinky people explain these things, so I'd love to hear some seasoned sex freaks lecture me on self-compassion, if that's cool.

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