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Do guys find pleasure in any "different" way if using dotted/studded condoms for masturbation? (Or did my BF lie about using one for jerking off?!)
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Do guys masturbate with studded condoms or is the studded part purely for "her" pleasure? The ones I'm talking about are Skyn brand

Asking because I noticed one less condom in my BF's night stand and we don't use condoms (monogamous, std tested and I'm sterile). BF said he used one to masturbate as and that he does that on a very rare occasion like once or twice a year, because it feels different, and something about the grip and slide but no idea what he really means or if he is being honest. He didn't mention it was studded, I noticed that myself when opening one to check what they're like today. I have a key to his place, he introduced me to his family and overall didn't think he would do something like cheating but I am having doubts about a guy choosing to masturbate with a condom, it's super weird and sounds shady to me. Studded condoms sound like meant for vaginal pleasure, not penis pleasure, so why would he use one to jerk off?

Could there be more that he is not telling me that doesn't involve cheating? Like, could he have some kind of issue or deficiency?

Also, to add, he's had these few condoms laying around for months in his night stand, from before we started dating, so he had them there for a while (but they expire in 2 years). He did not purposely buy new condoms that I'm now finding out about. Still, the whole thing sounds weird to me for masturbation and I'm thinking he could've used them with someone, but have no evidence, so I'm trying to see if the type of condom tells any story.

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No, because we don't use condoms so he wouldn't need to practice shit. Plus he's 37, not a baby

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He's had those laying there since we started dating so he probably used them when he was dating other people before me. One being missing now is what concerns me

Does girth have anything to do with anything here?

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I don't know that he didn't cheat with that condoms that's the problem. I'm trying to find clues as to whether the type of condom is relevant here and says something

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Like anal play on himself? I don't know about that. Is that something guys would hide from their girlfriends?

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Wouldn't that be irritating and unpleasant? Have you personally done it and can confirm it doesn't hurt? Studs are meant for the vagina, not the penis pleasure, right?

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