I (F) love the idea of sex. I love masturbation. I've got a solid grip on what I enjoy and am happy to be pretty much completely honest about it too. :)

Over the years, I've collated smut I've written involving my fetishes, some videos I made of clips that arouse me from movies, another but with porn, I've taken a test or two, etc. I've kind of got a real catalogue and history of what I like, and how to navigate those preferences and kinks to please myself really well. Regardless of them likely changing as I grow, I've got a familiarity and certainty with them. My question is, when is it too much for someone?

Is it too weird to be this interested in it? Is it just..'better' to roll with it and not say things, or stress overt preferences, or go all in with the supermegaultra kinks from the start (not doing them ofc, just mentioning them). Some are taboo, some are very taboo. But not all.

I guess I'm wondering if it's a little faux-pas-esque to go all in, or if it looks like exactly what it is if I present it to someone - me overloading a person with all this extra info. Is it ever a thing to over communicate or be 'too' honest and straightforward? If someone did it for me, I'd absolutely love to see their preferences like that too, but I've not met someone who's interested in that yet.

I guess plain and simple, is it a big turn off to nerd out or be so self-concerned pleasure-wise?