Hi everyone. I know this may seem easy to some, but it’s something I’ve never done. In general, I’m learning to speak up more for myself (even outside of the bedroom). I’m 31 and I have never guided or directed anyone on how to please me orally. I just lay there and let them do their thing. Sometimes it feels okay, sometimes it feels really good for a second, and sometimes, it’s just something I could do without. My current partner I’ve been with for 2 years and he’s not terrible at oral, but he’s not great. Actual penetration is perfect. I want to communicate with him what I would like during oral but when I get ready to say something, it’s like I stall and lose confidence. But the thing that’s killing me is I know he’ll be open and receptive. But I worry that he’ll think “dang all of this time I haven’t been pleasing you.” And then we’ll probably have a talk about why I never said anything up until this point. Idk maybe I’m overthinking. Any advice would be helpful<3