Hi there,

Three weeks ago my (24m) girlfriend (22f) broke up with me. One of the reasons was that she didn't feel enough passion between the two of us and we only had sex like once a month. Apart from that we were both very happy in the relationship and loved each other very much.

I don't like penetrative sex or getting blowjobs, I somewhat enjoyed pleasuring my gf orally but also not something I would want to do every day. I do however feel sexual attraction towards women and I also masturbate. When masturbating I fantasize about being dominated by women and my ex girlfriend was kind of dominant during sex so I thought maybe that would "cure" my dislike for sex. But it was the sex itself that just wasn't very enjoyable for me.

Some days I'm really horny and think I need to find myself a woman and make out, but I know from experience that when it comes down to it I'm not going to enjoy that either. And then the next day I'll think I never ever want to have any sexual connections to anyone.

I'm honestly confused and don't know how to find out what I'm looking for. Will I ever be able to hold a relationship?