My partner and I have a passionate overlap in our sexual fantasies pertaining to exhibitionism and voyeuerism. This was apparent very early in our relationship and it took us very little time to begin experimenting (and accelerating) with performing and observing public sex. We really enjoy this but also share an ethical concern over exposing our community to our sex without consent or observing those who don’t really want to be seen. We’re looking for an outlet or system to have sex publicly and be seen by those who know how to find us and to see others who want to be watched. I feel certain there’s got to be ways to find and be found that’s out of the eye of uninterested regulars, but we’re feeling on the outside of it all. Any advice on how to get into this?