How easily do you adapt to the kink of a lover?

I had a lover in my twenties who I adored. She was the most beautiful woman I was ever with. She was also smart and mysterious. Unfortunately, she had a difficult childhood with a father who was emotionally abusive. She liked to be degraded, which really bothered me. I wanted to build her up. She was good at articulating the necessary boundaries. In the heat of passion when I degraded her, she got very turned on which, of course, made it easier to do. One day she asked me to pee on her. That was considerably outside of my comfort zone.

About a week later we were in the shower playing with each other and water temperature. After getting our bodies red in hot water, she started turning the water down. It got very cold after our bodies had been heated. We wrapped up in each other’s arms. I was quite hard and she rubbed herself against my erection whispering, “I better keep this warm.” I was very cold and very aroused. And as you might have guessed by now, the warm flow of her peeing on my manhood was an incredibly erotic sensation.

I learned to get into golden showers with her. It was erotic and it was fun to share her kink. Though I got into it with her, it was not something I carried into relationships after that.

Have you adapted another’s kink? If so, was it difficult? Were you able to fully get into it?