Hi everybody, Some backstory- this isn’t necessarily a threesome because he wouldn’t be doing anything with the other woman but we both have been interested in me doing stuff with a woman while he does stuff with me. We kinda just both brought it up with each other after watching porn and we can’t stop thinking about it. I’m 24F and he’s 24M. We’ve been together for years and been living together and we were both virgins when we met at 17. We’re both germaphobes so we would need a woman who is super hygienic, STD free, and willing to follow our boundaries and rules as in I’m the only one doing actual sex stuff with the girl (a strap on) and he would maybe have both us give a BJ but that’s about it other than watching us do stuff. He just wants to have sex with me and kiss me while I do stuff with her. Sorry if that’s confusing I’ve never done something like this. We’re both super shy and are home bodies. We don’t party, drink, do drugs or do anything crazy honestly. So this is a new fantasy and one we would like to do. Any advice? Or how to find someone who is hygienic, trustworthy, and STD free? Preferably someone who isn’t super experienced with sex since we’ve both only done stuff with each other and we are very much in love and have a very strong relationship. This is just something we want to try once. Any advice appreciated please 🙏🏼