This is making me go insane! I (F23) have an extremely high sex drive, much higher than my boyfriend’s (31) and I’m used to having sex 5 times a week. (Ideally every day) But in my current relationship, we have reached a point in my relationship where we average once a week and this has made me insanely sexually frustrated. We otherwise have a good, loving relationship but most of the time, my boyfriend doesn’t seem much interested in sex, compared to me who’s basically a sec addict.

I would love some advice on how I can go about dealing with our mismatched libidos, and also, some advice on some sexy ways to initiate sex as a woman, because I do struggle with initiation sometimes. Both male and female perspectives will be appreciated!