Hubs (42m) and I (32f) have been together for 5 yrs. Dated for 3 and married 2.5 yrs. Dating was great. Sex was amazing, he had me doing things I’ve never tired before. Since we have gotten married, all amazing sexual experiences have stopped. He rather masturbate than put it in me. Here’s my dilemma. About 4 days ago, he told me he cannot stand bodily fluids. Of any kind. I feel lied to because prior to marriage, he was all about it. So, then I started thinking “Okay, what in his past could have caused this?” “Maybe it’s not me” honestly, I’ve been dying inside it’s been 2.5 yrs since I’ve gotten any action from him like the way it used to be. So, does anyone have any idea what could have caused this reaction? Is there something I’m missing? I rather try to understand him than get down on myself and say it’s my fault he doesn’t want anything.

EDIT***So, as suggested, I did ask him about it to find out more information and what I got was from him, it’s not an issue so he doesn’t care much about it and he won’t go see a doctor about it because it doesn’t bug him.