My (35M) fiancé (34F) and I broke up about two months ago. We were only 5 months from the wedding, and had been together for 3 years. After 3 years of being with her and being pretty devastated over the breakup, I’m trying to get back out there and have fun (like they say, “the best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody” 😉.) However, I’ve come up with excuses to cancel dates because the thought of being naked with somebody right now terrifies me, and that never used to be the case. FYI: this isn’t relationship stuff, def. not ready for that, just fun but I can’t seem to get out of my head. Thoughts? Advice? Comments?

Also, just realized: new not knew** haha