Okay, new here, but I have a question. I have been in a committed relationship for over 7 years with a man significantly older than me (34 and 53), who I love. And he knows this. We share 1 child, and I have an older child. Anyways I recently hooked up with my neighbor, who is a woman, and it was amazing. Instant attraction when we met, a couple of months later it happened. Obviously not the first time for either of us with chicks. But amazing. I plan to tell him he knows I like women too. I'm not in love with her or have feelings. it's just purely fun. So will he be mad if I keep it a secret longer? it's exciting doing it alone.. I think he would enjoy knowing that? Or will he be mad if I allow it to continue. Again, I'm going to tell him I just don't know when. We have had a threesome before. So, is it cheating? It's only happened once. But she is my neighbor.