So I (28 M) met this girl (34 F) who was visiting the country, on a dating app and we met up on her last day here. Spent about 1 hr talking and we got along really well. Eventually we end up at my place and things get frisky and I go down on her. It went on for about 25 mins and she had a shaking orgasm.

This is where things started getting odd. She started laughing and hugging me tightly multiple times while making it clear that she is not making fun of me. Then she asked whether she can use her inhaler and proceeds to do it. Realizing that she is flustered, I suggest that we cuddle for some time. We cuddle for about 5 minutes and me being super horny tries to start things up a bit and tried kissing her.

She suddenly says “I’ve got to go”. I was pretty surprised because based on our conversations so far, she felt like a nice person who enjoys sex and there was undeniable chemistry and sexual tension between us. She proceeds to tell me that it has got nothing to do with me and that I didn’t do anything wrong. I suggested that we cuddle some more but she just repeated that she has to go and that she just got out of a long term relationship. I was sad but respected her choice and while leaving she was happy and kissed me and said she wished that we had more time to get to know each other.

What I want to know is whether she just used me and left once her needs were met or was it a genuine case of emotional overload that caused this. Is it fair to hold it against her for not reciprocating, being the sexually experienced person that she is? Thanks!