1. My girlfriend doesn’t care for sex after 20-30min. After she cums she’s over it and only wants me to finish, it’s like all the love and passion fades after she’s came.

2. She says it hurts, and I avoid anything that will cause that, but she also won’t speak up whenever it happens and internalizes it.

3. She see it’s as “scared” which I don’t disagree with but she has very high expectations of how present and centered she should be before anything can happen. This makes any spontaneous fun impossible. And also I feel like making having some fun way more than it actually is and overthinking it.

4. I can never turn her on, no matter what I try, she is only ever down 1x a week and lucky 2x.

5. She says if she was alone she’d probably never think about sex. She also never really masturbated before me and still doesn’t.

6. I love seeing her naked and it turns me on so much, anytime she takes her shirt off I just want to love on her and kiss her body but she withdrawls always! It never turns her on with my sexual contact. And now she’s getting on me why I don’t act that way without her shirt off and I do! Just not like boobs in my face lmfao.

I really don’t know how to feel about this all. I don’t feel sexually satisfied and I don’t know if I can since she’s so disinterested in sex. I dream about making love for hours but I don’t see it ever happening…. We are even considering opening up so I can find satisfaction….

Any thoughts on this?