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Has anyone else had to defend the fact that they don't have sex as often as people assume? I get a lot of attention from people who are interested in me and it seems like the more that happens, the more strangers online (who only know me from my Tumblr and maybe snap stories) assume I'm sleeping with them just because they show interest???
It's driving me insane that I keep running into this issue. Literal strangers and even sexual partners I've known for years think I have a lot of sex. I'm very transparent. I constantly complain about my LACK of a consistent sex life on my social medias yet I always seem to be pigeon holed as overly promiscuous. I don't even have the confidence to engage with others the way so many people think I do.
Granted, I am very comfortable in my sexuality, I used to do SW on the side making content and taking pictures but I literally only have 1 or 2 videos in my entire roster where I'm not alone.
For whatever reason they also think I don't use condoms. I have a million asks in my inbox specifically asking about raw sex. I understand it's the internet and people can be pervs but I'm a little hurt and maybe angry. I feel like I'm being targeted unfairly.
Has anyone had experiences where people assume you're sleeping around often based off little information and a whole lot of filling in blanks? What did you do?
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I was just upset I can't use violence to solve all my problems and I'm realizing that now the feeling of being hurt passed. Thank you for the response though ❤️