My (24M) best friend (23F) got a boyfriend (21M) a few months ago. I should preface that I’ve had feelings for her in the past that were unreciprocated. But I’ve met her boyfriend, and the three of us hang out together from time to time. It’s gotten to the point where both he and I consider each other friends as well. That said, she’s shared with me that they do explore each other sexually. I don’t know much, but I have to admit… I’m really curious to know what they do together, what it’s like. Because I’m a virgin, but also, I… kinda just want to hear more? My friend and I make sexual jokes fairly regularly, but they’re never directed towards anybody personally, so there’s no tension. I’ve prodded the subject of sex in general with her, and we’ve been able to have open discussions about it, even mentioning a couple preferences of ours. But would asking about her sex life be a bit too invasive? We’re really close to each other, just platonically, so I wouldn’t think so. She’s told me before that she wouldn’t mind talking about sex more with me, but because of my previous infatuation with her, she fears it might hurt me. And since there’s really no benefit to me having that knowledge, she doesn’t like the idea of risking possible pain for me. Like I said, she’s stated that she doesn’t mind talking about it. So I suppose the question becomes whether or not I think I can handle hearing the details. But I guess I also wanted to reach out to Reddit and ask if there are any other cautions I should keep in mind when it comes to this situation.