(Update on the bottom!) So my best friend’s boyfriend is currently on deployment and she’s been going through it lately. She’s been picking at my boyfriend for about a month now and she told me she “can’t stop thinking about him” and wants a threesome cause sometimes I like to say how good my boyfriend is in bed.

I don’t mind threesomes since I’ve done them before, but I am VERY possessive over my boyfriend. It’s been a fantasy of his but I’ve always immediately said no. After maturing/gaining trust in each other it’s been something I’m a little open to now. But now that it’s actually happening I feel a little annoyed with it already.

What annoys me is my boyfriend’s and best friend’s logic for this. My boyfriend said I can’t have a MMF threesome cause he’d get very jealous and doesn’t want me to have pleasure from another man. fair enough. He told me it’s never going to happen. He said I should enjoy a FFM threesome cause I’m bisexual. Yes, I am bisexual, but that literally has nothing to do with anything. Most girls who have threesomes aren’t bisexual and just put on a show for the dude.

My best friend said if her boyfriend asked her for a threesome she’d feel insecure and self conscious. And she wouldn’t want to see him with another woman unless he really wanted it. Which is exactly how I feel about this situation.

I think I’m just agreeing to this because I’m a people pleaser. They planned it for tomorrow but I really don’t wanna go through with it anymore. If my boyfriend doesn’t wanna see me with anyone else why is it an issue when I say the same? I feel like I’m going to get very pissed off if this happens. I don’t know why she can’t just get a man off of Tinder or something instead of my boyfriend.

I need advice please

Edit: Just to clear things up, this wasn’t my boyfriend’s idea this was my friend’s. He doesn’t show much interest in her but I can’t say the same vice versa 🥲

Second Edit: I appreciate all the replies I’ve gotten on this. I trust my boyfriend since he’s very honest with me and I’ve fantasized about having a threesome as well because I would love to spoil him. I just don’t want it with her. But finding a second girl is pretty hard honestly, but that doesn’t mean I should settle. I don’t want anything between us and I’m going to talk to him in person about it tonight. I’ll update y’all again later (mini edit): And yes he is a marine, sadly a Jody in the making

Third and last update: I finally stood my ground and refused it. My boyfriend was very very supportive and very comforting about it. As for my friend; I will keep an arms distance when I’m with my boyfriend. My boyfriend says I matter more than just a fantasy, and he’d rather keep me ❤️ I’m so proud of myself for standing my ground, it’s something I haven’t done before. I appreciate all the advice here since it helped motivate me realize this is a shit idea. Happy ending to the story. Maybe not for her boyfriend but at least for me and my boo :)