I’m 33 years old and I’m just realizing now that I’m really codependent. I’ve never been able to provide for myself, settling for crappy jobs because I always thought something better would just fall into my lap. I had pretty much used my friends and ex-band mates to get ahead, and took a back seat for every project I’ve ever been a part of. I relied on my ex to pick up the slack when we fell on hard times and when she broke up with me I had to move back in with my parents. Right now I’m living with my current gf, her son, and our daughter. Being a dad has kind of forced me to be more independent but there’s still much more room for improvement. Right now I’m working on building a career and working on my own music projects, ones that I am trying not rely on anyone, at least creatively. Just thought I’d share my journey