Hello I am 24M and I have problem with self confidence and a strong character. I always undermined myself over others, always afraid of telling my opinions and I feel I have no values or standards when I am in public I mean if someone just talking about something that I disagree with I just agree with them and be afraid do disagree.

I want to change this especially people says you are a tall strong mascullar and you have aura or whatever what are you afraid of.

I started to dig deep and found the source of this problem. Which is I was bullied when I was a kid from a particular kid that I grow up with. He was bullying me about how I look, Everything I say or do, lets just say about everything.

I find peace with it especially this kid I believe that I turned to be better than him he is just insecure I think that’s way he was bullying me

My question is what now I feel nothing or nothing is changed