I will admit, I am a girl who likes a little self-bondage sometimes. A few days ago, I had a slightly disappointing experience with self-bondage.

Here, if you like: https://www.reddit.com/r/selfbondage/comments/q1z6ef/i_just_couldnt_get_into_it/

I am also a bit of an orgasm denial fetish lover. So, each day that I work from home, I edge in the morning before I log into work.
Yesterday morning, I stumbled into this amazing video on spank bang. It hit all my buttons -- self-bondage, edging, denial, ball gags, bondage that was exceptionally well done.
And the model in it was stunning. I mean like.. make my mouth water beautiful. The kind of beautiful that would make straight girl go lesbian -- and I'm not exactly straight.
But more than wanting her, I wanted to be her.
So I decided to do some of my own play after I logged off (early) for the night.
I had arranged for a friend to get some (amazingly good) Greek food and come over for dinner and wine. She doesn't know much about my sexual appetite. And isn't a friend with benefits. In fact, it would be really embarrassing for her to find me. But then, that's part of what makes it good for me.
I went down to my basement. I like doing bondage in different places -- my bed, a spare room on the floor, the sofa in the living room. But there are advantages to the basement.
It's been cold here. And my basement is heated, but I keep it a little cold in the house to save heating costs. I was planning to be fully dressed, so I thew on a pair of old sweatpants and headed down.
The basement is unfinished. So I planned to wear slippers and socks to stay warm. But there is something about bondage in my bare feet on the cold concrete floor that is a real turn on. So I went with that.
I went to the chin up bar I use to stretch and exercise.
First, I padlocked bondage cuffs to my wrists and ankles. Then I padlocked the ankle ones together, with the key on the floor.
Then I decided to use a ball gag and so I secured it in place. (The girl in the video had one too).
Then I did a crotch tie like the girl in the video. Only I had no rope. I had thrown away the old stuff, and hadn't gotten any replacement yet. So I used 3 belts -- one around my waist and two in between my legs. In them, I put a dildo-type vibrator, held in place by the belts. The video had done this too and I thought it was a great idea. I used a 4th belt on my knees to pull them together.
I did not originally plan to be topless because I was worried it would be too cold. But decided to be so that I could use my clover nipple clamps. I secured the chain between them to the chin up bar so that I was just a little uncomfortable flat-footed.
I attached a pair of handcuffs to the chin up bar with a chain. And locked them in place with a timed-lock.
I hesitated. The clicked my right wrist restraint to the right handcuff with a "click".
I hesitated again. I reached down and turned on the vibe. I was thinking I could just stay like that for a few minutes, then get free, since one hand was out. Almost without thinking I clicked the other handcuff to the left wrist restraint.
There I was. My hands were secured above my head. My nipple clamps were tied to bar, the knot on the string out of reach. My legs and feet bound together.
The vibrator was just a little north of where it needed to be. This was somewhat intentional, since I didn't want to make it too easy, and I like to squirm.
The only way I could get any response from my clit, was to lean forward, which pulled the belts tighter and shifted the vibe's position.
But leaning forward with my nipples chained above my head was... well... painful. My left side was more painful than my right. And I realized I didn't put that one on quite the same way and the string wasn't even. So it felt like it was on fire when I leaned forward. But, the vibrator kept getting my attention. So, I kept shifting -- forward for a few seconds to get a good rush. Then back to relieve some of the nipple pain. I tried to reach down and adjust my clamps (or even remove them), but my hands were tied too high and couldn't make it past the tip of my nose.
The session was short, because I was pressed for time, but seemed longer than it was. Toward the end, I looked up at the timed lock to see that I only had a minute left. And I couldn't believe how long that minute lasted. I was sure 5 more minutes passed, when I looked up and saw that I still had 36 seconds left.
By the time the lock finally opened, I was a drooling, drippy mess. The first thing I did was remove my clamps, which shot a quick jolt through my body.
I wanted to get off. But it took a while to get all the keys into the right locks and get collected. I was not as cold as I thought, but still wanted to get a sweater and socks on. And I was hungry. And I had to get ready for my friend to come over. So I put the bondage stuff away and went back upstairs.
In the end, I had a few minutes before my friend came over. I ended up bringing myself to what was probably a small ruined orgasm. (There is a fine line between an intense edge and a ruin for me and I was right on it). It was enough to make me feel like I needed to go clean up again, but not enough to really satisfy me. In fact, it left me a bit more horny. But, because I knew my friend would be over soon, I had to stop, clean up and get ready.
So, in the end, it was a really good experience.
Anyway, thought I'd mention it.
Play safe.