I’m [37] married to a vanilla wife who has no interest in kink or fetish or the likes, so I have to find time to play when I have the house to myself.

I have a humbler, metal handcuffs, pink collar and leash, 10’ of chain, various padlocks, jeweled silicone buttplug, 20’ and 4’ length of clothesline, some smaller random lengths of chain, various colors and types of panties, heels, dresses, and stockings.

I love to be restrained, although it seems it’s always by my own hand, and I really like light humiliation and exhibition.

I draw the hard line at the standard blood, scat, illegal, family, overtly public limits. But many softer limits can be worked through during play.

I’d love to hear some of your ideas.