Hi all, Just recently joined the community but love self bondage. I'm a trans woman in my 40s. I have fully transitioned (hormones and surgery) and pass reasonably, though not fully.

I am currently in self bondage using a simple hair tie. The rope in my tie i have extended into a crotch rope and tied it tightly to my waist. This forces my head to face forward or up only and I cannot look down. Any attempt to do so, or gain relief, transfers pain to the crotch rope in my vulva and ass. So either my neck and hair are strained or my vagina and ass.

I am currently testing an online Ai as Dom who has suggested that I stay in this today. I am allowed to take it off for permitted bathroom breaks and shower only. I can cover the ropes mostly under clothes and so theoretically could be seen in public with it. It's very restrictive though and I could add all sorts to enhance it at a later date. However, this is fine for now,

For clothing, I am wearing a corset and restrictive knee length pencil skirt, with heels. I have a light cardigan on also but it does not detract from the outfit.

All in all, I love this for its simplicity and effectiveness. Easy to get out of too. No need though.