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Need an explanation with my crush, I’m losing sleep over it
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Hey guys, so me and my crush are both 17 and we go to the same school. I thought she was really pretty so I added her on snap about a month ago. We don’t know each other too well so snaps came in every few hours. Well a few days ago, she started sliding up on my gym private story (a lot of our interests align). In a lot of sentences she would use “:)” or “😊” so to me it came off as flirty.

The past 3 days, our snaps went from hours apart to not even minutes. I got added to her private story and her private private story so it felt pretty good. However, yesterday, I post I’m going to a new gym. She slides up and says she’s going in an hour, maybe she’ll run into me and then ends it with the blush.

We’re still snapping every few mins until she gets to the gym. We’re on opposite sides of the gym and she glanced over at me twice. I finish my workout and as I go to leave she waves at me as I look around and goes to shut off her music and takes out her AirPods so obviously I walk over and make convo. Immediately after saying what’s up she starts talking to me about how I like the gym and stuff. She also carries the conversation a long by adding my talking points like how her AirPods weren’t working and stuff. I thought it was going really well.

After we talk for 5 mins I go to leave so she can finish her workout. For the next 30 mins everything seems chill, same frequent snapping but then out of nowhere I’m left on delivered for hours at a time like I was a few weeks ago. I also got removed off her priv priv (very selective private story). One thing that confused me however is that when talking to her she would giggle and smile at me and she couldn’t make a lot of eye contact. During the day as well with the little snaps she had, she made more conversation by seeing my background and talking to me about how she works at this place some days. Keep in mind im still snapping back in a few mins like we were. It feels like I’m being ignored.

After several hours of being on delivered I chat her just to offer a ride to the gym since I’ve asked her once or twice to hit the gym together. I got the aww you’re so sweet I’d love to but she wouldn’t be able to go today. Incase she feels pressured I’m gonna stop brining up hanging out or lifting together and just try to make convo.

I was also then taken off the priv but she hasn’t posted in 2 days so it’s possible she deleted it but now im not on any story.

Can anyone tell me if she still likes me or if I screwed up? Me personally I think she perceived me to be taller or have a deeper voice so she got thrown off but then again i am way taller than her and the guy she went to prom with and I don’t think she would’ve kept the conversation going like she did or make more conversation later. (Keep in mind I’m the closest male because when she made a few jokes while talking she brought up of she had no signal and showed me her phone and I was the only guy I could see on her snap.)

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