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Like shit I'm 17 and never had a girlfriend and somehow I'm like scared to be whit a woman that used to hook up a lot and have a big body count idk is it's just me insecurities bc I'm still a virgin or sum but it's so annoying but I think it might be bc i hate having the thought that this person slept whit a lot of other persons before and that I'm just another simple guy
Edit: I'm just going to find someone who meet my standards bc a lot of ppl don't understand that Studies show the more sexual partners someone has the harder it will be to form an emotional attachment to their significant other in the future. And the divorce rate skyrockets. And if she doesn't meet those standards we'll it not a big deal I'll just look for some more
If a cashier gave you a $100 note, do you think it's only worth $20 since a supermarket employee gave it to you rather than the bank?
Point is, people's value shouldn't go down based on Romantic history, a person's value is based on who they are now, what they do now and compatibility.
Stop using a broken metric to place a low value on people.
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That's a highly flawed study as divorce rates in general have been on the rise across the board since women could vote, have their own bank accounts and own land/property etc. The studies were very limited in scope. If your standard is meeting a vigin, you better e one yourself.
As I said, history is one thing, but how people behave, conduct themselves, lifestyle choices, morals, life goals, etc, in the present; are far better metrics to gauge compatibility than looking at someone's history.