For context; last year i got out of a 7 year long relationship. Recently I’ve been on the dating market, and I’m not looking to get into another relationship. I’m just trying to hook up with girls and have fun. I’ve been using dating apps and meeting people in real life.

But I’ve noticed that all the girls that show interest in me don’t just want to hook up. They are looking for something real. Am i not good enough for just sex? Why does it seem every girl only wants one thing nowadays? Where are all the hoes at?

I’m tired of dealing with these innocent girls looking for love, when I’m just trying to smash. I hear from friends all the time how they’ve hooked up with some random girl at a bar or club. It’s very upsetting. Why do they get one night stands and i only get girls who want something long term with me?