I am 24 and kinda insecure about women and man-woman relationships as a whole even though I think that I am ok looking and not that boring. I do not have any problems talking to women in a regular basis and I do date quite a lot at the moment. However, I really am not comfortable in clubs and am not having fun. I feel pressured by friends to go and feel undermined when I express my feelings, explaining that this is not my thing and that I do not want to go.

I just went to a club where I had a nice conversation with a beautiful woman, without real afterthought even though I would be lying if I said that I did not want to kiss her at the time. I feel that most dudes are going to those places to pick up women and feel very uncomfortable doing that. Although I believe that it is okay for me not to like it, I can not help but feel weird, not cool enough or inferior to other men that are comfortable in that context. Let's say that this does not make me less insecure, it is quite the contrary tbh.

I wrote this to vent and do not know if it is the right sub to do so, maybe I am just looking for some support lol

What do you guys think about that and how should I act towards my friends ? I would like to just enjoy the moment and not think about anything but the music but I always feel this latent pressure.

Thanks for reading.