We’re a long-time married couple (I’m 42/6’1”/straight; she’s 41/5’11”/bi) living in Murrieta, California—an hour north of downtown San Diego, about 45 minutes south of Riverside.

We’re not seeking a mere unicorn to play with; we’re both demi and can’t do hookups or even mere play partners. We’re also not looking to fix something in our 21 years of being together. We’re looking to extend our love to a special lady who desires to join a stable couple and love each of us too; to form a throuple long-term or even for life.

We’re both physically fit as you can see and are looking for someone who also is. I’m also an experienced Dom, so her being kinky would be ideal as I’d love to form a power exchange dynamic with our special lady within our throuple. My wife is not into power exchange though, but she’s a very strong sensualist and an even stronger empath. So you’d be her equal, her lover, and best female friend.

We’re drawn especially to SINGLE bisexual women who are 35-45, give or take; who have playfully bratty/sassy tendencies and outgoing personalities. Often blondes. Having a good career, being physically fit (so not BBW), a beautiful face, a kind soul, and a warm nurturing heart—not to mention having an extremely HIGH libido—is important to us.

While we’d love to meet our Person here in Southern California, we realize that chemistry, deep connection, emotional bonding, and commitment are vastly more important. So we’re ready to go “all in” regardless of your location if you’re able to frequently visit us and eventually move here. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.

We’re looking for true love. Romance. Deep best friendship. Yes, and tons of sex and kink. Throuples require active maintenance of four relationships, so only serious mature women should consider entering in.

If you see yourself in this description and truly desire to be in a long-term/lifetime throuple, then please send me a thought intro message (rather than just “hey” or taking days to respond). Be ready to exchange numbers if we have strong potential and a good connection, not telegram, whatsapp, snap, etc.

Is it possible to find throuple love on Reddit? Hope to find out!