Disclaimer: I put that I am seeking in Canada because I am a Canadian citizen who has wanted to live in Canada for ages. It does not mean that I can immediately relocate when I am not yet financially independent. Thank you for understanding!

Hey! It’s Lanthanum here from Hong Kong (East Asia) who has been looking for a couple to build a future life together! First of all, I want to make it clear that any form of smoking and drugs are deal breakers for me. This includes weed. Alcohol for me is also personally not preferred, as l am a lot more comfortable with people who are completely sober. Besides, I’m not a fan of huge gaps, so please be someone between 18-29, unless we click well! I am not looking for a hookup or a friends with benefits situation for this one, but rather a genuine connection that blossoms into a three-way romance.

I have a wide range of hobbies and interests. So many, in fact, that it’s impossible for me to list all of them in this post. A few examples are story writing, mental health advocacy, scenery photography, nail art, classical singing, and language learning! If yours are not on the displayed list, shoot your shot! Chances are that I like a thing or two about the things you’re doing.

I’m not personally into getting married legally or getting pregnant myself, but I’d love to join a couple who has plans to raise a family! I will participate in it when the time comes, and neither of you will be a dirty secret (controversial in east Asia, I know). By the way, I have several conditions including diagnosed autism, ADHD, DID, anxiety, depression, (mild) scoliosis, and a few more undiagnosed disorders like PTSD and ARFID, so it’s understandable if I am not for you! Since I am now applying for a bachelor’s degree in translation locally, I don’t have a job as of now, which may be a deal breaker for you! I will be unable to move until I become financially independent several years later, so you will have to move over if you want to be next to me. I hope you will understand.

Honesty and respect are top priorities in my intimate relationships, and I expect you to return it. Whenever anyone is not interested in pursuing me anymore, please let me know. Time and energy are precious commodities for me. I do not tolerate mind games.

There’s a lot more to me for you guys to learn about and I can’t wait to see you in the DMs! Tell me about you: your age, sex, your plans as a couple, and we can talk after you send the code word “strawberry”! See you around!