Hi Guys, Girls & Non-binary pals,

After a recent influx of barely disguised casual sex seeking ads here, We've clarified and cleaned up the rules and removal reasons. It's pretty much done, so please re-read them @ https://www.reddit.com/r/seekingthrouples/about/rules

Updated rules:

Rule number 2 has been slightly changed:

No nudity, naughty pics (including underwear) lewd comments or porn is permitted on this sub.

Other throuple subs are overrun with smut, making it impossible to find real people. All sexually suggestive posts/comments, will result in a 10-day ban for first ‘offence’. Then a perma ban, if you continue to post lewd content.

Rule number 3 has been expanded upon:

STRICTLY NO: Hookup, Casual, "fun" exploration, Swinger, FWB, play OR ANOTHER SIMILAR types of ad.

We are a SERIOUS, romance centric throuple dating community. Our am has always been to run a clean, safe and friendly space.

So, at the risk of repeating ourselves, this sub WILL NOT ALLOW: Hookup, BDSM, Swinger, casual, fun, exploration, Cuck, HOTWIFE, FWB or any sex lead posts of ANY kind. TO BE CLEAR: You will be banned, if you post any of that here. If you try to dodge this rule, your post will be removed and offenders will be given a 10-day ban for first offence. Then perma band if you continue to break the rules.

Other stuff

We have cleaned up removal reasons, so they match the rules and make better sense.

Going forward....

From here on out, we will have to be very strict with the rules. We are a bit taken aback to be honest. There are loads of other NSFW subs, why not join them if you want to post and consume smut or look for casual group sex? This group is not for that, so why muddy our doorstep? It is simple my lovelies, keep your posts clean, or you WILL be removed from the community. We're content to lose a few members with this update, but it's no skin off our nose.

Yes, we are a NSFW dating community, but only because all "alternative" dating communities are required to be placed under the NSFW hashtag by Reddit. It was NOT our choice, but rather for the protection of less grown up redditors. It's not an invitation to post rule-breaking stuff.

We are seeking new EXPERIENCED mods

If you're interested in helping out, contact us via modmail, with links to other subs you have worked in. We will go from there.

Thanks for reading, everyone!

It's been a tough love update. Let's smile again, eh?

Your Mod Mama Tiggi xx