So I decided to go out the other night and did not go as hot. I asked one chick if she was up for a game of pool and said no. There were 2 chick sitting and bsing but got weird vibes so kinda stayed away. This past Saturday I went to the same bar with a friend and talked to two chicks. One was lesbian and her partner was from some place 2 hours from my home town. Second one I talked to for a bit and asked if she was busy tomorrow and asked if she was much of a coffee person but said no and with that told her it was nice to meet her and went on my way. On a more positive note when I went back on a Tuesday I was not carded and the bar tender remembered my last name. Also when I went with my friend last time the bar tender thanked me for not being an asshole (I also try to tip decently).

Another trend I notice is I tend to do well on Tinder in a certain region in another country. Once things open up a bit I might go there and explore that area more. Also homeless chicks have been starting up random conversations with me. They are not bad looking but I imagine there is more to the story. It is just intresting.

One final note I have approached 48 women (admitedly some was just walking by and said hi so I debate whether to include that or not but do if my intention was to try and close). I have had gotten 1 number, got 2 dates (online though) and it has been about 3 months. I also have someone from abroad I have been talking to but I am still trying to meet people so I am not dependent on that one person. Usually when I talk I just ask how their evening/how they are doing and what they are about and maybe after 5 minutes might ask about plans this weekend or the like. Do I keep pushing forward with this model or should I try something else? My goal is to get to 100 approaches before year end but I wanted to to a check point to see if I am fucking up or just need to keep going. Also I am working out and have lost 47 pounds but still have some room for improvement.