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So long story short I moved to a decent sized metro area in my 20s, get married, and then seperated (no paperwork so no mess). I kinda feel like shit to be honest. I have been with 3 women and 2 hookers and feel like sh6ot because I am 27 and just feel like everyone is more experienced than me. Also i feel like an idiot for wastinf my time on someone that did not care.
I am going on a 2nd date from Tinder but she does not seem too responsive to texts but I believe we are still on. My ex from before has been messaging me that she is moving to the States and might want to meet up and see where shit goes. Also when I was woekinf on my biz idea in my head I was separately greeted by two women. The second one I introduced myself to and said i lived down the street. I did not feel like chatting much but it is positive. I also have two airbnb rentals I am setting up so I am happy about that and have a good job.
I just worry that I will attract the wrong people (looking for Beta Buxs) and I just feel a but raw lately. I get the making money for me is for me, but I just feel lile I wasted my 20s making money and outside two places don't have much to show. Normally I would travel and I would feel less tense, but with so many restrictions I have been stayong put lately. I just can't shake the feeling I missed out and it kind of hurts. I have made about 20 approaches in the last month and all have gone soso. I will keep trying once I lick my wounds but I kinda feel like shit. Fuck if Benjamin Graham can pick up his daughter in law what is my fucking excuse (I base a lot of my ideas off his)? I can turn 5k into 250k in 2 years but I can't get a girl's (real number). I just feel like utter shit. Sorry for being negative but the wasted 20s post by another poster kinda stung as I do live on my own and had a relationship but it blew up. I just want to do better but getting back on the saddle is hard.
I have been dressing a tad bit better (gym shirts and shorts or jeans and sometimes polos), working on a facial routine, and working out. I am down 35 pounds so far but need to work harder on this as my weight loss has stalled.
I just feel like a jackass. On top of this outaide some software projects it seems hard to outpace my goals from my 20s. I might go back and double major in some things, workon getting my pilot's license (once rentals are up and running, and maybe work on foreign residency. Despitethis I really do 't feel challenged (outside some commercial software ideas and double majoring) and I revwrt back to sex. Outside a future forray into politics and working on net worth goals I fele kinda stale. I would travel but covid bs does not make me keen on that. Also my goals seem on automatic as 2 rentals was my goal in my early 20s and many of my other goals have been altered by covid.
Can anyone relate to late 20s being weird?
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